Sounds to me like your W is acting like a naughty child. She got caught with her hand in the cookie jar and even though you saw it she is denying it. Children need boundaries. Ultimately they make them feel more secure even if they strain against them some times. If they don't have them they get wild and out of hand but not happy.
Why must we always compare women to children? Wasn't Corri just talking about this? It's insulting. She is a grown woman who is making choices in her life. She doesn't need the paternal smackdown to "keep her in line." She needs to figure out her own mess as any adult would/should. The funny thing is I don't see us pushing women to take such a severe exposure approach with cheating men. We wouldn't want to shame them, make them feel less masculine. A man who stays with this woman is just pusssy whipped. No? This wasn't a direct response to you Saffie, just thinking and writing in general.
