6 years ago my wife and I were in a similar situation that we are in now. 2 days before Christmas she called me from the pet store and told me she had found a dog that she fell in love with (we never saw eye to eye on bringing a dog into the house.) For the first time I realized that I didn't have any logical reason for not getting a puppy and so agreed she should bring him home.

That single 180 turned everything around and we began working on us. As I have since learned, real change takes real work - something neither of us understood (obviously). I remain hopeful that we will still have the opportunity to fix things the right way.

Cute kids Mark!!


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