Cat, he will eventually work through this. But it is not on your timeline, so your patience is key. And you have a lot of that!
Glad the anniv was nice. Also good that you had your expectations at zero.
You and your H are trying very hard. And that says a lot about how much your M means to both of you... even if you or he are not "feeling" what you once did. Those feelings will return once he gets to the root of that is going on with him.
Patience, patience, patience.
You are very strong and you are one to be admired.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
thanks you ps :), it's amazing how short our emotional attention span is, I really really appreciate support, despite the fact that I should "know better" I, after all, I'm human and tend to fall on the same hole I fell the day before.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
