The only reason I would date would be to make her jealous
How old are you?
This is a horrible plan, now I know your reeling from this whole bomb drop thing, so I'll go easy.
You date and find someone you 'like' hang out start developing feelings, your wife, maybe shows interest in you. What do you do? Well now YOU'RE a scumbag. Now you are going to hurt someone, or up the scumbag card and date both, a couple coktails, and well...
This is a horrible plan Patrick. This is highschool planning, which is short term and designed for effect.
As for Fair, Life isn't fair, MLC is is a example of life not being fair driven home with a sledgehammer.
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my needs for intimacy are great. I have been without it for 5 months--I guess I am weak. I love my wife and kids but how long can I sacrifice my feelings and dignity.
In one sentence you are talking about, lets face it, Sex. In the other sentence you are talking about feelings and dignity being tied to it?
Hand. That's how you get through.
If they come out of MLC, they realize what they have done, and that is why I say without forgiveness this is a waste of time.
Life sucks, get a straw or drown.
You need to be tougher to make it through this.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 12/17/0706:41 PM.
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