I am buried under a major project at work right now... ..just stopping in for a quick question...

Anyway, xh and I were having a (good) R talk, and he said he still feels guilty about xow, and that's a big part of why he doesn't want to reconcile. He asked me how to get past that. He said that he's tried a few times (I can almost pinpoint them), but he only feels worse and worse afterwards.

I didn't know what to tell him. (This was, wow, over four years ago, and I've healed from this particular portion.) So, googling didn't give me much...anybody know of a good article, book, something, to address his side of it?

Thank you...it'll be another couple of weeks before I can post regularly again... \:\)

Azhira

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