I guess in my mind I have to figure out a time when I will give in. Of course when that time comes I may change it. I just feel like hearing people say 5 years, 6 years, it seems like a lifetime. I guess I have to take it a day at a time....this is the great thing about these boards are people like all of you helping people find strength. And helping us to see beyond the pain and negative thoughts. Even my own friends and family can do that...they don't really help most of the time.
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon