Sounds to me like your W is acting like a naughty child. She got caught with her hand in the cookie jar and even though you saw it she is denying it. Children need boundaries. Ultimately they make them feel more secure even if they strain against them some times. If they don't have them they get wild and out of hand but not happy.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
