I really appreciate your answer. But I don't know if I can be that strong. If my wife has sex with another man I don't know if I could forgive her. And the other thing is my needs for intimacy are great. I have been without it for 5 months--I guess I am weak. I love my wife and kids but how long can I sacrifice my feelings and dignity. I see all these people going on year after year and I wonder how they can do it. I understand MLC is a sickness but shouldn't they be partially responsible for causing the pain they do, to their spouses and children and everyone else...God, it doesn't seem fair
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon
