you obviously haven't read my whole thread... no worries. He started of accusing me of having an A over a year before my EA. Prior to the EA, there was nothing that should have given him the impressions of an affair. He would say he didn't know what i was doing at work. He would say things like "well, you get breaks and lunches, who knows what you do during those times" thats when i started calling him everyday at both my breaks and lunches. So yes, those were some sort of insecurities that he brought in independantly to our M. I would come home on a daily basis to accusations and questions and insults. He called me "some sort of whore" on more than one occasion. I dealt with it and tried to encourage and reassure him as much as possible. Nothing i said or did changed his mind.
I can totally accept and understand his behavior and feelings now. I can understand his being hurt and uspet and even possibly hating me, as you put it. He is justified in all those feelings and so many more, just as i am justified in having mine.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
