Ann, come on.

You sent naked pictures, pictures of you without clothes on to some, litteraly, *randomly* assigned solider on the internet and want to logically conclude that your husband had some deep insecurity issues that he independently brought to the marriage?

If my spouse were ehumping some guy, and sending him nudies, sucking me dry of emotional support whilst making not having sex with me paramount, honestly, I'd probably kinda hate her and lash out wildly after each rejection.