WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..(2)

[COG]

Jab,

Congrats on two months of sobriety!!! One day at a time brother.

Regarding the memories, pictures etc. Realize that your W probably doesn't have the same fond memories as you do. Where you might look at a picture and remember the joy, she may see it and remember why she wants out of the M. She may be smiling, happy, whatever in the picture, but HER reality may be quite different. Just be prepared.

Also. Be prepared for her to NOT stay with you on Thursday. Odds are she won't. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best! So just figure she'll be out on her own, out of YOUR influence and control. If you can handle that, and still be joyful in the morning, then you've really accomplished something.

God Bless,

COG

PS Humility!