Alison- I responded to your email- both of them thanks so much for taking the time to help.
Lin- His father was an alcoholic and my H used to go through a bottle or 2 of wine a night- he wouldn't get violent just pass out asleep- but basically acted normal. Our Church is involved now so he has some many folks now to hold him up and hold him accountible. I see him trying and he has admitted to pastors and his family that he has anger issues and takes those out on me sometimes- nothing really serious but a bruised arm here and there. He did admit that! Big step for him. He is currently trying some meds or atleast he is suppose to be but he is nervous about taking them.
I took him to his labor job today and he seems happier- He says he is taking it one day at a time
I am still lost though well- I am trying to rely on GOD and of course you wonderful angels here
Love<lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12