If the only people who know are OM, his w and your W then it is still contained. It will take a while to ride out.

I am sorry you are low. This time of year is especially hard. Have you got many family things arranged over Christmas? Will your W just put a front on for those things?

Did you speak to OM? If so what was he like? Did he indicate what he was going to do?

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength