P sorry you find yourself here If your W is in MLC and she is around the right age there is probably nothing you can do to stop it I would say nothing about the dating MY H took his ring off in june when he moved out I suppose he was already with OW I kept mine on until recently I have not dated Im sure H has We havent talked about it Its hard to get used to and it hurts but it doesnt mean anything and OP is part of the MLC issues they are running from themselves dealing with identity issues and from what ive read childhood issues as well it is not about us sorry about your kids I know it must be hard to not see them daily Im lucky mine are with me all the time as H comes here to see them only hang in read the MLC resourses and others threads belive none of what they say and half of what you see go on make a life for you for now most people here would say dont date for now you are vunerable and need to get clear and heal or you may attract a nightmare into your life wait if you can adding more R into the mix will only confuse you good luck peace
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