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sorry you find yourself here
If your W is in MLC and she is around the right age
there is probably nothing you can do to stop it
I would say nothing about the dating
MY H took his ring off in june when he moved out
I suppose he was already with OW
I kept mine on until recently
I have not dated
Im sure H has
We havent talked about it
Its hard to get used to and it hurts but it doesnt mean anything
and OP is part of the MLC issues
they are running from themselves
dealing with identity issues
and from what ive read childhood issues as well
it is not about us
sorry about your kids
I know it must be hard to not see them daily
Im lucky mine are with me all the time as H comes here to see them only
hang in
read the MLC resourses and others threads
belive none of what they say and half of what you see
go on make a life for you for now
most people here would say dont date for now
you are vunerable and need to get clear and heal
or
you may attract a nightmare into your life
wait if you can
adding more R into the mix will only confuse you
good luck
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow