Theo - of course I am to blame; he has blamed me the whole time and has himself convinced that the A has nothing to do with his need to D me.
Ok.. about the dating thing. Let me clarify: I actually posed the question to H more like a "so, do you think it's ok to date while the D process is in the works". I actually meant it as a "is it ok for ME to date" just to see what he said. His response was that, in his opinion, it is ok to date during D proceedings but that there is a lot of emotional baggage, hard to bring someone into it at this point, blah.. blah...
We had a long conversation w/pastor yesteday regarding D, etc. They know about the A. H sat across the room from me looking and acting quite defiant and determined that D is the ONLY answer. The convo obviously will have no impact on anything but I thought they should know what is going on.
Originally Posted By: theoden
He's having an affair with a "Christian" woman (where do I barf?)....
Two Christians refusing to give up their sin because they are so "in love". Yes.. that's lovely, isn't it?
