I am really sorry you are feeling like that. I know that feeling - I felt like that before H told me about his A, (not saying that is what your H is doing), which is why I started having cognitive behavioural therapy.
What are you feeling? Do you think you are looking at things too much? Has your Aunt left? I expect your H felt uncomfortable with her however nice she was, because of all that's happened.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength