Debra:

It sounds like you were well on your way to a new beginning and on your way to acceptance and healing.

It also sounds like maybe he couldn't hack that so decided to come back. Now that you've taken him back, all of a sudden he's telling you all this stuff about OW. Does he not wonder if YOU have feelings too?

I think if I were you, I would have to tell him to just move on.......or to get into counseling and deal with these "feelings" with a counselor, not you. You can't help him decide between you and OW!!!! He needed to have been firm about his decision before ever dragging you and your kids through the mud AGAIN!!!!!

I think taking him back once showed real courage on your part. But, to have to put up with all this wishy washiness on his part is just purely mean on his part, in my opinion.

Either he knows or doesn't know. If he doesn't know, then he needs to find out......and you aren't the one to help him with that.

I hope everything gets better.....one way or another. A heart can only take so much!!!!

L2B [Eek!]