Thanks for your thoughts. I know I have been coming off as combative particularly in this thread. I am pretty much done I guess, some of the combative tone I use here is an effort to psych myself up to deal with things I know I need to deal with. In actual fact all of the recent interactions between H and me have been really calm and full of compassion for each other.
The fight has gone out of our M. Now I'm just focusing on me and the kids coming out of this with our sanity. If that means leaving it means leaving. But I haven't definitely settled on that yet.
Thanks for your good wishes.
Fran
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
