FWIW, in the past, people I know, and who knew me well, said that I came across as conceited -- even though I didn't think I was putting that vibe across. Given what your W said about not feeling loved and that someone you just met said this, don't just lay it off on her defensiveness. Not saying you are (conceited, that is).
And, hooray for smooching.
Be careful out there, man.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY