I thank you all for your replies, we are settling into our new home quite nicely now, we even have a new christmas tree for the new home. No contact from ex, and I don't think there will be any, I can't believe he doesn't want to know where his son is living, it sure does change a person it the mlc that is has changed this man one hundred percent. he and his new wifey have been seen at the old place, not sure what for because I left it clean and ther isn't anything to move, maybe they are checking that we have gone, or he can't believe we have, I don't know and I aren't bothered, but I think they have balls of steel to be seen coming out of the place together in front of the neighbours n all, after what they have done I would have thought they especially him would have hung their heads in shame and not be seen in daylight hours round the old place.
