I had the affair and now my marriage appears Over

[fooled again]

I'm wondering where you went L-Husband? I was so hoping you could give me some insights, especially if you are still stuck trying to get OW out of your life/mind/heart or whatever. I imagine it must be a very difficult thing. I was hoping to learn what you are feeling so that I can understand maybe what my H must be feeling. Maybe just knowing something of what that experience would be like would give me strength to wait this out, to see my way to the other side, to have hope that one day I can live without doubt.

I hope that you are getting somewhere with your W, and maybe you are so busy working on M that you don't have time or need to post.