So, H initiated more D talk last night. He wanted to talk about details of the D (financial/child) even though it's not going to be final for at least 6 months. In the meantime, he would like to be able to publicly date ow since it's just a formality from this point. Nice... I guess that means I can date, too right?
Then, after the D is final, he is moving in w/ow. In his mind, people won't know that he had an A. Ummm... I think they'll figure it out! People don't typically move from one household to another even within a few months unless there was something going on while the marriage was still intact
Olive...sounds like he wants to date/screw her and blame it on you. You see YOU BOTH are getting a divorce, and since the formality is coming in 6 mos, he's "just dating".
I think if he wants to divorce you and openly date, it's OK for you to expose finally expose the affair: to his family and his church. He's having an affair with a "Christian" woman (where do I barf?)and he's divorcing you. This will make the relationship less savory and more sordid.
