Really? Move back in? That's pretty provocative. Ya think that will work to DB ?
It is provocative. There is no doubt about that. It is also provocative to tell you that you need explicit permission to enter the house that you are paying for. I know you want to be amicable regardless of the outcome but you are putting yourself in a difficult position legally and financially while she gets to have her cake and eat it too. I'm going to say this in an intentionally provocative way myself and hope you do not get offended. You are financing her affair.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.