Ok It was pretty friendly with no significant touching till we got to my car to leave and...well...does anyone remember "parking" in high school, get the picture? Pretty juvenile but its not like we had a place to hang out and I'm sure it would have gone further had we had somewhere to go!
As u all know who have gone here, it doesn't hurt the old PMA... cautious but interested.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Good description Puddle! Yeah, her mess, hmmmmmm, exactly....got more insight last night, nothing's perfect, she is probably more wary of me than vice versa...she thinks I am conceited! Ha! Maybe too much confidence? Just trying to be Nomo I guess! C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Clearly just confidant, I don't brag about anything, I hate that from others so...just her defense mechanism,
Puddle I havnt "smooched" like that in 18 yrs, very very nice!
So its a movie tomorrow, new years eve, matchbox 20. That'll work for me! Oh and maybe I can "encourage" a visit to my house when STBXW is out of town with my kids!
C (for confidant)
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
You know I'm sure you and I would have a great time at a gentlment's club sitting on pervert row. Some good laughs and such! Pretty sure we would lose Nomo by the end of the night and here the story the next day. Oh and GD isn't allowed to drive after either. It has to be a taxi. Just a little vicarous internet living.
FWIW, in the past, people I know, and who knew me well, said that I came across as conceited -- even though I didn't think I was putting that vibe across. Given what your W said about not feeling loved and that someone you just met said this, don't just lay it off on her defensiveness. Not saying you are (conceited, that is).
And, hooray for smooching.
Be careful out there, man.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY