still trying...update

[LuvMyHusband]

lol. your so funny Husband. My worst enemy is impatience! I know that and am working on it. I am a work in progress that's for sure. Yes, he is still coming around but I think it's just for the kids, not me. He calls every other day to talk to the kids. He doesn't ask for me and I haven't been calling him. So I am really wondering how Christmas will go. When he is here, it's great, then he leaves and were back to distance again. He doesn't want to work on anything right now. He is waiting for "to see my changes and if they are consistent". Yes, that's a quote.

No,I am no longer snooping. I don't need to know anymore than I do. I really have given up on it and I think it's bc I have learned that I have no control over what he does or doesn't do so what does it matter if I know. As far as I know he broke it off with the OW over a month ago. What worries me is that he may look for a replacement but again, I have no control.

H, maybe you do need to pursue, just a little. Things have been the same, haven't they? maybe it's time to shake it up a little.

So, what's the consensus on the emailed pictures? Is it pursuing or chasing? If not, then it certainly got a rise out of him. lol. Pun definitely intended. lol