H has a history of helping needed women in our 22 years. I know that history needs to end if we are ever to get back together.
I can identify with your H on that topic - When my self-esteem is really low, it seems easier to spend time with someone who is really needy and pathetic, than someone who is more headstrong and independent (like my W).
He probably thinks he's a piece of crap right now, and some loser who can't function on her own is the best he can handle.
He sure is acting like a piece of crap right now. I'm am so tired of the two Bi*#%es he calls his support system. While he was looking at our furnace that stopped running today one of them sends a fricking text. I know they have to know his every move because he is in constant contact with the 2Bs. WTF that they can't let him alone while he is here. He did find me sitting on the kitchen floor after crying. I can't take much more between this crap, work and the holidays. H will be taking Ds to his mom's if the heat doesn't come on.
