btw, about 2 weeks ago, I sent him pictures of me in lingerie from my cell phone to his email address. He about croaked and loved it. Is this considered chasing or pursuing?
I don't know if it is chasing or pursuing. Why don't you send the picturs to me and I will let ya know...
Hey Luv, THings take time. Beleive me I KNOW. I am finley to the point thought that I am figuring I have nothing to lose anymore so I am agian going to start pursuing. If it pushes her away so be it. I am not going to start out next year the same way this is ending..... Take care luv, if he is still comming around then ya have a chance. but... 1. DO NOT SNOOP. This seems to be something he has a problem with. I know it is hard. but you have to deal with one issue at a time. I have given up on letting the OM thoughts screw with my head. I am first going to try to get back in a sound marriage and then work on OM issues I have. I would advise you do the same except your H is not involed with a OM it A OW.....
Later H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know