If you want to ML then do. I think it helped in my sitch - it reminded my H of how good things could be between us.

Try smiling - I had forgotten how to do that. I still have aproblem with it. the older I get the more serious I get. On the boards i am the opposite and the more silly I get probably the worse my day is but with my H I take evrything too seriously. When he met me I was a bit of a good time girl and the life and soul of the party. Work and children killed that in me. I have to work on finding that part. If it's what your H fell in love with then remind him of it.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength