Why don't you want him to have a nice Christmas? My H has been horrible to me, but I am 100% positive I want him to be happy and have a great holiday.

Sorry, I don't know how to do the quote thing that you did. It's not that I don't want to make it special for him but I was told that it needs to be more for the kids not us.

Is he staying at your house? Yes, he is staying here. I assume he will sleep with me since he always has in the past.

About Christmas gifts, think really good friend. Gift cards, things like that. Nothing nostalgic or romantic....

Gotcha. A gift card seems too impersonal. I totally get the nothing nostalgic or romantic. Would lingerie be ok? rofl!

Faking my happiness right now is something I have to do. I'm not happy right now but I am trying.


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA