ok. thanks Lwb. Here is another thing. I feel like my brain is on overload. But that's a good thing. I have wasted a few months bc I just couldn't let go and wasn't dbing. I wasn't ready emotionally, I think I am now.
Some people say that when you are with your WAS that you shouldn't be intimate, some say it's up to you. I read some posts where Michelle said this one is tough as if it will hurt you more, don't do it. But...she also said that making love can be a way to help you to reconnect and bring emotions back into play and that's a good thing. My H has always said that sex was emotional for him. We seem closer after sex but he still leaves so I don't know what to think. Chuch the db coach said that it's natural for WAS to back off, especially if I am not consistent with my behavior. So, I would like input.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
