9) Work on me and only me, GAL, my kids and my work!!!
and this one:
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11) I need to really let go of him
Those need to come first.
I would not initiate any R talks, suggest counseling/Retro. I would put the 100% focus on the kids and holiday. Someone on here said "Treat him as if you are already amicably divorced, someone you are friends with and nothing more"
If he initiates, its because he wants to be heard. Let him talk.
