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[mrarow]

I hear you, but it does not make it much easier to be in this situation. I miss intimacy with my wife bad. Its been over a month and that's unheard of in my relationship!! W swears she is having no contact with OM but still hard to believe her after so many lies regarding him and there Affair. I have never felt so rejected in my life. She is now officially on the other side of the fence and taking separation and wanting all my personal belongings to be added up and split with the assets. I never dreamed I would here this kind of stuff from her. I need to get out and enjoy myself more as it helps to go spend time with others. I need companionship and friends ships right now as I have lost so much with this situation. I feel for you WAS32 hope things turn around for you and he wakes up and can see what's in his own backyard before he ends up like me with WAW and no effort to let us work it out. To much To late she says. Sorry but its about what she wants now. She is in love with my X-bestfriend and that's all it seems she thinks about now and how much she is not happy here anymore with me. She lets me know her feeling a lot now and I just try and listen but its hard not to end up with tears running down my face and feel I need to defend what we once had and what she feels was all a big mistake. Not very happy today. ;(