Adventures of Supermom...JennyF's 2nd thread

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I feel the same way, Jenny. My H knew the OW 3 weeks, left me at 6 weeks pregnant and moved in with her the day he left. She pays the rent and even paid his school tuition. She has 2 young children and an ex-boyfriend that would not marry her. They barely see each other, also. They text message, not speak on the phone, text message, mind you. We are still under the same cell phone account and the bill from the last billing cycle had 4500 text messages. Talk about needy? It almost seems crazy, no wait... it is crazy. He hurt his family, my family, me, our unborn child. He hurt a lot of people and really has not much contact with anyone from his old life. He doesn't talk to any of our friends, he doesn't talk to his brother or his parents anymore. He's off having fun going to Knott's Berry Farm, Disneyland, Babyshowers, hanging out with her friends, going out of town with OW and her friends. It is like he completely tossed his old life aside for this new fake life. I go crazy trying to figure out why. But, I think I know partially why. He does not want to grow up and have grown up responsibilities. Every time it gets close to him having to be an adult, he runs. Now we're having a baby and he bailed 2 weeks after finding out. So, I try to be patient and wait for the dust (from them kicking up their heels) to settle. What's he going to do when she starts making demands on him, especially for money? What about her kids (she doesn't even have them most of the time. I doon't even think they live with her. He never talks about them, ever. When he told me that she doesn't make him pay rent, I had to laugh. I though "what a sucker". So, in my mind she's pretty damn desperate to persue a married man who has a pregnant wife, move him in after 3 weeks, pay his rent and tuition. I know he has no money right now and won't for another week. He hasn't asked me for any and his parent told him no way. So, wonder who is footing the bill? I would feel sorry for her, but I don't.

Hang in there Jenny. You are an inspiration. I am following your thread because I am dying to see the post where he begs you for forgiveness.