he is sick and tired of me [censored] talking him to my friends (I haven't, they just know the truth) and that when she is born he plans on being here as much as he can
My H said kind of the same thing...although his was without the anger. Why don't they get that the reality is what it is? They created it but they don't like hearing about it.
Don't know if you know my sitch SO2, but my son is 8 wks old and H dropped the bomb when I was 33 wks. He is 'in love' with OW, they've been together a year apparently and he wants to move in with her. We are going thru the motions of trying to co-parent right now. He is here a lot because I am nursing and that is the only way he gets to see S. He picks up or almost 3 yr old D and takes her to preschool and brings her home most nights. It sucks seeing him this much. He is here today because he has to shovel the mountains of snow that are coming down. I think he thinks he deserves a medal for these things.
Your text sounds good...good idea to wait a day or two to send it to make sure you still want to say those things. Sounds like the drinking might be a problem if that's when he got angry like that. I don't have those problems with my H, but I can see why you'd threaten the restraining order if that is the case. Sorry you find yourself away from piecing. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
