I think it's the opposite for my H. I think he is the needy one in his R with OW. She is 39 (10 yrs older than he is) and probably going thru her own MLC). He seems to be the one chasing her.

Sorry about the rain Lizzy. We are being dumped on here. H came to shovel and it's going to have to be done again soon.
Looks like we've gotten more than a foot of snow in the last 12 - 18 hrs and it's still coming strong!

J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out