I have been thinking about you....welcome back. Sorry about the in laws. H sounds rather angry still. My h still isn't sure that this walk away is for real but we are most definetly hanging in there.
Charcoal the biggest change for me came when I quit being mad at H for our past. Our present was so screwed up that we needed to deal with that.
I remember being so thrilled that he was finally showing me he cared. Then I got so mad!!!Then stubborn anyway....when I finally figured out that I truly loved him for him. Not because of our history or kids. Then I starting the process of forgiving him & myself. Because of the ow involved I really had to search my heart ,examine my head & check with my soul to determine how and what I felt for this guy.
Somehow the past stupid behavior doesn't matter so much. The war has to stop. Cease fire and all that. Mat surely cares for you. You are an amazing writer. His feelings at reading what you wrote???Ouch!!!
So anyway I'm glad to see you are back here. You make alot of sense. How are the kids? The book you are reading sounds interesting.
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Kim (kip)
"Those who don't read, have no
advantage over those who can't"
Mark Twain