Hang in there, Kerry. That's really stupid what she's doing to your kids.
Document this. If push comes to shove, I think you'll be better than you expect regarding custody.
Hang tight, A's generally burn out after 6 months. On the flip side, if she decides to stay with OM, you deserve better than someone who would prefer to go for money over love.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY