Choc,
Damn! I like that line about the "insecurities." Good one!

I've been reading this book "Break Free From the Affair" and it talks about "charging neutral". In short, when I talk to her, I raise questions and make statements but I do it in a very calm, cool, non-threatening way. Again...I think that pisses her off more than anything.

You guys are giving me priceless support and advice. Deeply appreciated...deeply...

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden