Also, IM, I'm giving her lots of space and keeping a very positive attitude. I think that pisses her off more than anything.
Good!!!! Keep doing it. There's nothing that says you have to be mopey, just because you don't agree with what she's doing.
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Another story: she told me yesterday that she found a marriage counselor. Oh great, I thought. Now that do I say? I told her, "Fine, but I really think we have some individual issues we need to work on, and I would prefer to address those first." The look she gave me...if she'd had a knife available, I think it would have been sticking out of my chest...
I think you say "I would love to go to a pro-marriage counselor with you, but you need to end your affair, first. We can't accomplish anything so long as you've decided to open up our marriage to another man."
