I guess it is because the OM is aloof and avoids me, and my W says what else could he do, it makes me feel that if he is not man enough to stand up for what he did, then I think he is up no good.
He was my "friend" and my W and the OM were friends so when I see him with some other ladies, having one more drink I cannot but think that here is another "friendship" that can turn into something slightly more devastating,
I don't know any details, but I don't think his marriage is getting better so it adds to it.
As far as the rollercoaster it is unbelievable, comes and goes,
