I have been married for 12 yrs to a man who has a teenage daughter. He got custody of her when she was 11, and it has been a nightmare with her disrespect, running away, etc.
My h moved out about three weeks ago while I was visiting friends for a weekend. I came home to a note saying I was the problem and that he had taken an apartment. He said he "loves" me, but can't abide my anger over his teenage daughter. and he would give me financial and medical support for a period of time and that he would file for divorce.
He texts me about the bank deposits he makes for me, and other business type things, but I have only responded twice, in a very neutral manner. I have been very good about not calling him, his friends, or family. I just haven't talked to any of them at all since he left.
I want to call him to tell him I plan to attend church tomorrow, and how should we handle that to avoid any awkwardness if he's there too, but I am afraid I'll crack if I hear his voice.
Should I call, of just text?
The above is my sitch.
Since H left on 11/9/2007, I have gone almost totally dark and he seems to prefer that. Now what? Since we have no children together, we have no reason to see each other face to face. H simply texts me about household business, and that's not all that often, maybe once a week.
How do you get your H to notice anything if you have no contact except texts? We go to the same church, but I don't want to go when he's there. it would be too awkward and sad for me and I would break down. _________________________________________________________________
