Your situation sounds more and more hopeful each time I read your thread. You are one of the few active situations I get to read about here that makes me know that DBing works.
I wouldn't go as far as saying it 'works' - It certainly helps, and doesn't make things any worse. It continues to be up to the WAS to take the steps necessary to mend the relationship.
We're certainly no where close to even talking about being back together, but the fact that we are talking at all is better than nothing.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Keep up the good work and have a wonderful holidays with your W and D. Even though my situation has taken another dark corner, I will still be having a good Chirstmas holiday in Mexico. I have you to thank for getting myself to go ahead and book that trip for myself and the kids.
This time of year is really tough - Lots of memories, emotions and events that make us feel like we're forced into being a happy family again. I'm sure you and your kids will have great fun over the Holidays - Even if your W isn't part of it, at least you will have extra time and energy to put into your children to make Christmas really exciting for them!
