Does OM's W know? Are you sure she has been told? I had a lot to say when I was in OM's W's position. I think if she is being quiet that's strange.

Who else knows? Have you talked to your W about telling the children? Exposing it brings shame to the parties involved.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength