Well, I'm in a world of hurt here. She was absolutely furious that I confronted the OM. It was almost like she was jealous that I even had a conversation with him, which tells me a lot. Her exact words: "Don't make me choose between him and me!" I couldn't believe she said that. I just stared at her, dumfounded.
I don't think this is going to go on much longer. I think she's ready to walk...
Bomber,
Sorry to hear of your hurt. I'm going to re-post something that Nop originally posted:
She WILL get angry when you expose her affair. If you can't handle her anger, then you don't need to be listening to me. She will get over it eventually.
Of course she is going to get angry! It's out in the open now..funs over!
"Don't make me choose between him and me" hmmmm...isn't this "best friend" of yours got a little problem on his hands as well? Or should I say "hand"...as in left hand...ring finger??? This whole little thing might have been fun for him on the side, but how does he really feel about breaking up his marriage to pursue this further? Or does he have a spare room in his house for your wife to move in with them? Sure his wife would be thrilled for that.
Hang in there Bomber...stick to your guns...keep working on yourself! She's gonna do what she's gonna do. Show her how much your marriage means to you by standing up to this and not waver.
