I had a week of behaviour like that Bombardier and that was after H told me about the A. OW even had a love nest set up. Don't assume anything and stick to your guns.

Reality is a LOT different to fantasy - your W might not have a choice - OM might not be interested now this is all open. What has OM's W said?

(((((((((HUGS))))))))

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength