Aud, Are you and H in MC? Is H in C? Just wondering since you are talking about the not taking thigns seriously thing. My H tends to do the same thing. But I call him on it now. I am feeling moer comfortable calling my H out on the things that bother me.
You could think about telling him, gently, how the things he say sometimes bother you. He may not know how he makes you feel. If he is anythign like my H, he probably doesn't give any thought to the things he says or how it impacts others.
I think your attitude is great. You are showing a lot of patience. I hope you get to a point where you feel more comfortable telling your H how you are feeling.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
