Slow and steady wins the race. I know the feeling of wondering if you are "enough" for H. Just be yourself, but be aware of any of the behaviors that might be destructive to your M. Remember what got you two into trouble in the first place and stay away from those things.

But at the same time, be YOU. Don't try to be who you think your H wants you to be. Be YOU. Be loving. Be a partner.

Enjoy this time with your H and your family!


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track