CL, This sounds excellent! The fact that she wants to incorporate the positives into her life is VERY encouraging. She is moving along her path to find inner happiness. She finds peace in your home... that is wonderful.
It's also nice that she thanked you for being supportive. Now you know how your actions impact her.
Go you!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track