Hi everyone - I have been posting under infidelity lately since my husband is involved with OW. Has anyone who has been separated had to deal with allowing visitation of your child with spouse and OW? We are not even legally separated yet - fighting over separation agreement in court - and he has just moved in with his OW but lied and said they are just "roommates" - now he wants over nights in his new apartment with D. My lawyer says unless I can prove it is anything other than "roommates" I have no choice. (Dropped bomb on 8/16 - he filed and moved out 9/07 - lived diff places and only wanted day visits with D - now living with OW and wants over nights) I cant stand the thought of this OW being around my D. It makes my skin crawl - its eating me alive - I though after the D I will have to grin and bear it - but before the D? How do you cope - how do you do it? Its like sending my D a double message that what your father did is ok and his OW is a great person - go ahead and see daddy and his new girlfriend. I dnt know how I will bite my tongue to my D6 and not tell her daddys new girlfriend is a mean lady. Any advice?? Thankyou
