Just checking in. Things still moving along nicely with H. Although, once in a while, I get this urge to check his cell phone. Then I stop myself and think of you all here. I hear your words in my head... no snooping... it will do no good... H is a big boy and he needs to make his own decisions and I need to focus on our M.
We've been doing better at resolving arguements.
On another note, I was talking to a friend of mine who had an A years ago. She and her H decided to stay together and worked through it. They are still M today and have a good M. Anyway, she told me that she had just read somewhere that statistically, the Ms that go through something and work throug them are much stronger in the end. That's our goal, isn't it? That's why we're all here.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
